Michael Jackson; A gifted singer and performer, but troubled soul.

The news of the sudden death of pop icon and superstar, Michael Jackson filled the airwaves. Everybody has something to say about Wacko Jacko as he is called. Michael Jackson was said to have collapsed in his Los Angelis house at about 12.30pm Los Angelis time and his death was confirmed at about 2.25pm L.A time. The immediate cause of death was cardiac arrest, but there were reports of the fact that ha has been having problems with prescription drugs for a long time. Michael seems to be not only a bundle of talents, from his weird but creative lyrics to his dancing steps and choreography including the moon walking, but he was also an embodiment of emotional problems and psychiatric manifestations.
But first let talk about his talent, music, lyrics and dances and the impact they have on many of us. Like Larry King said in his interview on CNN, while it is true that he had a troubled life full of scandals and wrong choices, it is also true that he was talented beyond measures. What is sure is that he gave us his talent, let us celebrate that.
All of us have something to say about Michael Jackson. It could be the good, the bad or the ugly, but none of us can ignore him! For me, I will say that I was fascinated by his creativity. His lyrics were out of this world, but I have always had a suspicion for the mysterious mind that will be churning out such weird subjects at a consistently regular frequency. What do you have to say about things like Thriller, Dangerous, and Bad. Of course he was also instrumental to the USA for Africa fame, but for a young boy that I was, the video of his Thriller album always invoke a mixed feeling of fear, amazement and admiration.
Now going down memory lane, I remember how my big cousin will clear the centre table in our house then just to dance to the music of Michael Jackson with moves like backslide, head spin and trying to mimic his moon walking moves. Then I also remember how with each passing year, his once handsome face was constantly changing until it eventually became like that of a ghost. I remember myself wondering if he really wanted to become like one of the ghosts in his Thriller video. Then as the years went bye, the news started changing from his ingenuity to his ignobility. It now became constant news to have a scandal about wacko Jacko. If he is not accused of molesting little children, he was seen attempting to throw down hi baby from the back of his balcony, to financial problems and marital woes. There was a time it was even said that he could never attempt coming to Africa because of his skin. A black man who could not come to the original home of all blacks !
One will never really know the depth of the mysteries in the mind of this genius, but it has been said that there is a thin line between genius and madness. I will attempt to highlight some of the emotional issues and Psychiatric issues that I think plagued his ingenious but troubled life in subsequent posts in this blog. But for now I join millions in the world who were touch by his music and dance and who are feeling a sense of loss and vacuum about the news of his death in saying ,ADIEU MICHEAL JACKSON.

Poor Judgement; Reinforcement for Corruption!

So many things came up from my visit to Psychiatric Hospital, Uselu. It seems as if my creative juice which seems to have dried up for some time was just let loose by that visit. It seems to be getting secreted my the minute from the experiences I had during that visit.

Now, I had some arrears of salaries that I had not received for some time paid me in person during that visit. The interesting thing is that I had already received some amount which is for the arrears of CONTISS and was so happy about it, only for a colleague to point out to me that I still had not received at least 3 months arrears from about 15% increase in salary that was paid in November, 2006 for the earlier months of that year. The interesting thing is that I had written some letter of authority which I sent to a friend and colleague for the money to be collected on my behave. The claim is that I must have to write such as long as I have left the services of that hospital.

And so, my visit was to touch base, to sign a couple of forms to register for my forth-coming examination and then to collect the above arrears. Like I was saying before, I had to go back to accounts section of that hospital to ask for the 15% salary arrears. In the process, the record of my bank account was called for and all the account resolved. So I was paid the money. Now, the interesting thing is that the account section had always have my bank details in their records and yet they refused to pay in the money until I have to show up in person! Is that not incredible? Is that not poor judgement? Well, maybe it is just plain corruption that is embedded in the system!

So, I have some catching up to do and I will like to stop here since I have made my point. But seriously, when will we lift our nation out of this quagmire of wide spread distorted thinking that is embedded in the system that is festering corruption? Why can't we just simply do the right things and put our nation on the road to greatness. After all "righteousness exalted a nation and sin is a reproach to any people".

I will be talking more about this widespread poor judgement which is reinforced by corruption that is embedded in the system in subsequent post. For now, I am out of here! Keep moving and think right!

Communication; essential ingredient in building relationships.

My visit to Psychiatric Hospital was eventful and fulfilling. I had already told you about that experience. I am in my study all right. I already proposed to do more study these days than being on the net.However my mind just wandered to a statement made by one of my senior colleagues in that hospital. He said that the scope of Psychiatry is wide because even in the professional exam, someone can just record a scene at the market place and ask questions about it. That is the practicality of Psychiatry; it has a lot of relevence in everyday life.



That is the thought that preoccupied my mind as I recapped all that transpired today. I surely saw the relevence of what I am doing in terms of establishing and maintaining good relationship be it at home, at work, at the place of worship and in the wider social context.

Communication is one of the most important ingredients of good relationships.Lack of good communication skills can spoil an otherwise cordial relationship. It can sometimes determine how successful our marriage, career or any other human endeavour we find ourselves will be.



Take for instance the case of an employee who decided to travel for days without the knowledge of the employer due to a certain so-called important issue. No permission sort and therefore non-granted. Yet the same employee is now evokes God when the employer decided to deduct the wage for the number of days that the employee was not at work. Maybe simple communication of the need to be away for certain pressing issues would have forestall such! Many people find it difficult to hold down a good job because of poor communication skills. They assume a lot of things, as if the next person can read the mind. They are lackadaisical about the work they do and only offer a lot of fantastic reasons for whatever lapses they have only when they are found out. It has been said that 'one's attitude determines the altitude'. They never really amount to much in terms of holding down a job or building career.



Take another case of two colleagues. One made a simple request of the other to take his call duty because he had reasons to travel at that particular time. The friend promised to check his schedule and get back to the colleague if he can take the call or not. He never did! Even when his friend was calling to find out about his decision and to know if he should make alternative arrangements or not he didn't pick his calls. The friend sent him text messages to know his decision, he never replied them! A simple no would have been okay. He however did not communicate with his colleague and yet did not take the call duty! He justified himself on having something very important to do. Simple communication about his decision would have solved the problem. Talk about an essential ingredient in relationships. If their is no effective communication channels, it can lead to prejudices, dangerious assumptions, gossips and even outright resentments.



There is no type of human relationship in which the need for communication is more obvious than in the area of marriage. A couple got married and later started having problems because the husband believed that God wants him to be in Nigeria and the wife insists that she must live abroad. Eventually they had to go separate ways because of this and other irreconcilable differences! One wonders if they never got to share their different believes and harmonise it before signing the dotted lines. Talk about communication.



Now, relationships are essential parts of the human society. The measures of the health of our relationships can give an insight into our personality which is a very important component of our mental health and well being or lack of it as the case may be. If effective communication can help in building and mentaining healthy relationships, it could be said that effective communication can help improve and mentain good mental health.

Poor Judgement; Babangida's Theory on Guinea

I love psychiatry and it shows.It gives me a wider way of viewing things as against the parochial ways that I see people view things around me.That is what happened to me about 30minutes ago when on reaching home from church I browsed through a copy of this day magazine on Sunday that I bought on my way home.My usual practice is to browse the paper and then settle to read the whole paper through.However I had to immediately read a piece that is titled "IBB's Theory on Guinea".

Now IBB is the former military dictator who ruled Nigeria between 1985 and 1993.He was reputed to have organized the freest and fairest election in the history of Nigeria.But incidentally he also annulled the same election! Moreover, he came into power by staging a palace coup against the same military government in which he was the chief of Army Staff. In the course of his rule, he executed his childhood friend Mamman Vatsa for staging a coup against his government, because it is treason to stage a coup against a sitting government. One question I have always asked is this; Is the truth relative? Is right or wrong relative? Is there no right or wrong or does the concept of right or wrong depend on who is interpreting it? If a Mamman Vatsa was executed for conducting a coup, why is an Ibrahim Badamosi Babangida not executed for conducting a coup.Simple, he succeeded! However, let us face it, if I steal and was not caught but later found out it still makes me a thief.If I murder somebody and was not found out immediately and I was found out 5 years later, it still makes me a murderer. Babangida was a coup plotter,though he succeeded, that does not mean he is innocent. No, he was involved in treason and should be tried for treasonable felony. The sane goes for all that were involved in coup in the past, like Muhammad Buhari.

Why am I suddenly bringing up this line of thinking. It is because of what I read in the piece titled "IBB's Theory on Guinea".According to the article, Babangida says the military takeover in Guinea was a fitting and patriotic step to save a dangerous polarised country. Can you imagine? To Babangida's mind, the concept of right or wrong does not exist but anybody can leave his constitutional role and dabble into strange terrain all in the name of patriotism. He believes that a soldier that has the constitutional role of protecting the territorial integrity of a country can turn round and topple the government of the same country in the name of patriotism. He is inclined towards a master corrective role for the military on the political stage.He went against the constitution, got away with it and then canvasing that others should go against the law and the collective will of the people. The reason is very simple. His judgement was poor, was poor throughout his rule and still remains poor. He can openly say such folly because he was not tried for treason, and still enjoys the status of an ex-ruler being paid the tax payers' money and enjoying the highest honour of the land! If his government had been declared as illegal and an illegality by act of Parliament,he would have no audacity to make such outrageous pronouncement. At least, former president Olusegun Obasanjo received presidential pardon for a phantom coup before he could walk the streets freely and then went on to become a president.
So, for planning a coup, Babangida should be made to face the same treatment that he meted out to people who were caught planning a coup too. After all, Gideon Okar and co were also trying to save the country from the misrule of Babangida and his cohort who elevated corruption to an exalted position and institutionalized it.

So, judgement is an integral part of the mental state examination. It gives us an idea of the thinking of the individual. Over the years, Babangida as shown a lot of poor judgement, before, during and after government.Even in this days when military rule is widely condemned all over the world, he still maintains his poor judgement.One wonders why the Nigerian government will send such a person as representative in such an issue as the forceful takeover by the military in Guinea.